Plain
Epictetus — The Slave

But the first way is both impossible and takes too long. It means trying to do something Zeus himself couldn't do — convince everyone what's good and bad. Do you have that power? No. You only have the power to convince yourself. And you haven't even done that yet. So why are you trying to persuade other people? Who has spent more time with you than you have with yourself? Who has more power to convince you than you do? Who cares more about you than you do? So why haven't you convinced yourself to learn? Right now, isn't everything backwards? Is this really what you've been working on — learning to be free from pain, free from worry, and free from shame?

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Knowing Yourself Freedom & Control
Epictetus — The Slave Original

But the first way is both impracticable and long, to attempt the very thing which Zeus has not been able to do, to convince all men what things are good and bad. Is this power given to you? This only is given to you, to convince yourself; and you have not convinced yourself. Then I ask you, do you attempt to persuade other men? and who has lived so long with you as you with yourself? and who has so much power of convincing you as you have of convincing yourself; and who is better disposed and nearer to you than you are to yourself? How then have you not yet convinced yourself in order to learn? At present are not things upside down? Is this what you have been earnest about doing, to learn to be free from grief and free from disturbance, and not to be humbled (abject), and to be free?

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Epictetus — The Slave

You'll need to rent slaves and buy some silver cups. Show them off in public if you can. Use the same ones over and over, but try to hide that fact. Get fancy clothes and other flashy stuff. Act like important people respect you. Try to eat dinner at their houses, or at least make people think you do. Use cheap tricks to make yourself look better and more impressive than you really are. This is what you'll have to do if you choose the second path — the one where you don't want people to pity you.

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What Matters Most Knowing Yourself
Epictetus — The Slave Original

It will be necessary for you to hire slaves and to possess a few silver vessels, and to exhibit them in public, if it is possible, though they are often the same, and to attempt to conceal the fact that they are the same, and to have splendid garments, and all other things for display, and to show that you are a man honored by the great, and to try to sup at their houses, or to be supposed to sup there, and as to your person to employ some mean arts, that you may appear to be more handsome and nobler than you are. These things you must contrive, if you choose to go by the second path in order not to be pitied.

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