Never say "I lost it." Say "I gave it back." Did your child die? You gave them back. Did your wife die? She was given back. Did someone take your property? That was given back too. "But the person who took it was evil." What does that matter to you? The one who gave it to you in the first place decided to take it back. What difference does it make whose hands were used? While you're allowed to have something, treat it like something that isn't really yours. Think of yourself as a traveler staying at an inn.
Never say of anything, “I have lost it,” but, “I have restored it.” Has your child died? It is restored. Has your wife died? She is restored. Has your estate been taken away? That likewise is restored. “But it was a bad man who took it.” What is it to you by whose hands he who gave it has demanded it again? While he permits you to possess it, hold it as something not your own, as do travelers at an inn.