Men start calling women "mistresses" when they're just fourteen years old. Women notice that men only see them as sources of pleasure. So they focus on making themselves look good and put all their hopes in their appearance. We should help them understand something better: they deserve respect only when they act beautifully and virtuously, not just when they look good.
Women from fourteen years old are flattered by men with the title of mistresses. Therefore, perceiving that they are regarded only as qualified to give men pleasure, they begin to adorn themselves, and in that to place all their hopes. It is worth while, therefore, to try that they may perceive themselves honored only so far as they appear beautiful in their demeanor and modestly virtuous.