Plain
Epictetus — The Slave

Men start calling women "mistresses" when they're just fourteen years old. Women notice that men only see them as sources of pleasure. So they focus on making themselves look good and put all their hopes in their appearance. We should help them understand something better: they deserve respect only when they act beautifully and virtuously, not just when they look good.

The Enchiridion, Section 40 56 of 70
Human Nature What Matters Most
Epictetus — The Slave Original

Women from fourteen years old are flattered by men with the title of mistresses. Therefore, perceiving that they are regarded only as qualified to give men pleasure, they begin to adorn themselves, and in that to place all their hopes. It is worth while, therefore, to try that they may perceive themselves honored only so far as they appear beautiful in their demeanor and modestly virtuous.

The Enchiridion, Section 40 56 of 70
Epictetus — The Slave

Your body sets the proper limit for what you need to own, just like your foot sets the limit for your shoe size. If you stick to this natural limit, you'll stay balanced. But if you go beyond it, you'll get carried away like falling off a cliff. Think about shoes: once they stop being about fitting your foot, they become gold-plated, then purple, then covered in jewels. Once you abandon the proper measure, there's no stopping point.

The Enchiridion, Section 39 55 of 70
What Matters Most Knowing Yourself
Epictetus — The Slave Original

The body is to everyone the proper measure of its possessions, as the foot is of the shoe. If, therefore, you stop at this, you will keep the measure; but if you move beyond it, you must necessarily be carried forward, as down a precipice; as in the case of a shoe, if you go beyond its fitness to the foot, it comes first to be gilded, then purple, and then studded with jewels. For to that which once exceeds the fit measure there is no bound.

The Enchiridion, Section 39 55 of 70
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