What am I focused on right now? What is it made of? How long will it last? Which virtue do I need for this situation? Gentleness, courage, honesty, loyalty, sincerity, contentment, or something else? For everything that happens, get used to saying: This comes directly from God. This comes from the chain of cause and effect. Or this happens by chance. When it comes to other people's actions, this comes from my neighbor, my relative, my fellow human. They act from ignorance because they don't know what's natural for them. But I do know. So I treat them according to the natural law of fellowship — with kindness and justice. For things that don't matter either way, I respond based on what I think each situation deserves.
What is this, that now my fancy is set upon? of what things doth it consist? how long can it last? which of all the virtues is the proper virtue for this present use? as whether meekness, fortitude, truth, faith, sincerity, contentation, or any of the rest? Of everything therefore thou must use thyself to say, This immediately comes from God, this by that fatal connection, and concatenation of things, or (which almost comes to one) by some coincidental casualty. And as for this, it proceeds from my neighbour, my kinsman, my fellow: through his ignorance indeed, because he knows not what is truly natural unto him: but I know it, and therefore carry myself towards him according to the natural law of fellowship; that is kindly, and justly. As for those things that of themselves are altogether indifferent, as in my best judgment I conceive everything to deserve more or less, so I carry myself towards it.