When anything happens to you that feels like a burden or disaster, remember other people who faced the same thing. What did they do? They grieved. They wondered why it happened. They complained. And where are they now? All dead and gone. Do you want to be like them?
And as anything doth happen unto thee by way of cross, or calamity, call to mind presently and set before thine eyes, the examples of some other men, to whom the self-same thing did once happen likewise. Well, what did they? They grieved; they wondered; they complained. And where are they now? All dead and gone. Wilt thou also be like one of them?