Don't work like someone who expects to be miserable. Don't work to get pity or praise. Have only one concern: in everything you do or don't do, follow what love and community require.
Labour not as one to whom it is appointed to be wretched, nor as one that either would be pitied, or admired; but let this be thine only care and desire; so always and in all things to prosecute or to forbear, as the law of charity, or mutual society doth require.