Work to stay connected with others in kindness and caring. But don't feel you must agree with their opinions. When people oppose you in doing what's right, they can't force you to stop doing good. Don't let them force you to stop caring about them either. Keep yourself steady in both things — doing what's right and staying gentle toward those who try to stop you or get angry with you for what you've done. To fail at either one is wrong. Giving up out of fear is cowardly. So is turning cold toward someone who is naturally your friend and family. Both are like running away from battle.
To grow together like fellow branches in matter of good correspondence and affection; but not in matter of opinions. They that shall oppose thee in thy right courses, as it is not in their power to divert thee from thy good action, so neither let it be to divert thee from thy good affection towards them. But be it thy care to keep thyself constant in both; both in a right judgment and action, and in true meekness towards them, that either shall do their endeavour to hinder thee, or at least will be displeased with thee for what thou hast done. For to fail in either (either in the one to give over for fear, or in the other to forsake thy natural affection towards him, who by nature is both thy friend and thy kinsman) is equally base, and much savouring of the disposition of a cowardly fugitive soldier.