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Seneca — The Senator

Do you get angry at young children who don't know right from wrong yet? Of course not. Well, being human is an even better excuse than being a child. We're all born with minds that can go wrong just like our bodies can get sick. We're not stupid or slow — we just use our intelligence badly and teach each other bad habits by example. If someone follows others down the wrong path, you can hardly blame them for getting lost on a road that was already there. A general might punish one deserter harshly, but if the whole army runs away, he has to forgive them all. So what stops a wise person from getting angry? The sheer number of people doing wrong. He realizes how unfair and dangerous it is to rage against faults that everyone shares.

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Human Nature Calm Your Mind
Seneca — The Senator Original

Does any one become angry with children, who are too young to comprehend distinctions? Yet, to be a human being is a greater and a better excuse than to be a child. Thus are we born, as creatures liable to as many disorders of the mind as of the body; not dull and slow-witted, but making a bad use of our keenness of wit, and leading one another into vice by our example. He who follows others who have started before him on the wrong road is surely excusable for having wandered on[6] the highway. A general's severity may be shown in the case of individual deserters; but where a whole army deserts, it must needs be pardoned. What is it that puts a stop to the wise man's anger? It is the number of sinners. He perceives how unjust and how dangerous it is to be angry with vices which all men share.

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Seneca — The Senator

You'll realize that getting angry at people's flaws makes no sense. Would you get angry at someone who trips in the dark? Or at a deaf person who can't hear your commands? Or at children who forget their chores because they're playing games with their friends? Would you really get angry at sick people for being weak, or at old people for aging, or at tired people for getting worn out? Among all of humanity's problems is this one: our minds are confused. We can't help making mistakes, and we actually enjoy making them. If you want to stop being angry at individuals, you have to forgive everyone. You have to forgive the entire human race. If you get angry at young people and old people for doing wrong, you might as well get angry at babies too — because they'll mess up soon enough.

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Human Nature Calm Your Mind
Seneca — The Senator Original

You will rather think that we should not be angry with people's faults; for what shall we say of one who is angry with those who stumble in the dark, or with deaf people who cannot hear his orders, or with children, because they forget their duty and interest themselves in the games and silly jokes of their companions? What shall we say if you choose to be angry with weaklings for being sick, for growing old, or becoming fatigued? Among the other misfortunes of humanity is this, that men's intellects are confused, and they not only cannot help going wrong, but love to go wrong. To avoid being angry with individuals, you must pardon the whole mass, you must grant forgiveness to the entire human race. If you are angry with young and old men because they do wrong, you will be angry with infants also, for they soon will do wrong.

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