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Seneca — The Senator

The father didn't curse the king. He didn't even let slip a single harsh word, though his heart was wounded as deeply as his son's body. You could say he did well to hold back his words. Even if he had spoken in anger, he could never have expressed what he truly felt as a father. I think he showed more wisdom in that moment than when he tried to control the drinking of a man who was better suited to drinking wine than drinking blood — a man who only granted peace when his hands were busy with his wine cup. By staying silent, the father joined the ranks of those who learned the hard way how little kings care about good advice from their friends.

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Seneca — The Senator Original

He did not curse the king, he did not so much as let fall a single inauspicious word, though he felt his own heart as deeply wounded as that of his son. He may be said to have done well in choking down his words; for though he might have spoken as an angry man, yet he could not have expressed what he felt as a father. He may, I repeat, be thought to have behaved with greater wisdom on that occasion than when he tried to regulate the drink of one who was better employed in drinking wine than in drinking blood, and who granted men peace while his hands were busy with the winecup. He, therefore, added one more to the number of those who have shown to their bitter cost how little kings care for their friends’ good advice.

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Seneca — The Senator

The father should have challenged the king about his success. He should have demanded another shot so the king could prove on the father's own body that his hand was even steadier than when he killed the son. What a brutal king! What a perfect target for all his followers' arrows! We curse him for ending his feast with cruelty and death. But it was worse to praise that arrow shot than to shoot it. We'll discuss later how a father should act when standing over his son's corpse — a murder he both caused and witnessed. For now, I've proven my point: anger can be controlled.

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Seneca — The Senator Original

He ought to have raised a dispute with him about his success, and have called for another shot, that the king might be pleased to prove upon the person of the father that his hand was even steadier than when he shot the son. What a savage king! what a worthy mark for all his follower’s arrows! Yet though we curse him for making his banquet end in cruelty and death, still it was worse to praise that arrow-shot than to shoot it. We shall see hereafter how a father ought to bear himself when standing over the corpse of his son, whose murder he had both caused and witnessed: the matter which we are now discussing, has been proved, I mean, that anger can be suppressed.

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