We should train our minds to see the common vices of ordinary people as foolish rather than hateful. We should be like Democritus instead of Heraclitus. Heraclitus wept whenever he went out in public. Democritus laughed. One saw all human actions as miseries. The other saw them as follies. We need to take a broader view of everything and put up with it more easily. It's better for a person to laugh at life than to cry over it.
We ought therefore to bring ourselves into such a state of mind that all the vices of the vulgar may not appear hateful to us, but merely ridiculous, and we should imitate Democritus rather than Heraclitus. The latter of these, whenever be appeared in public, used to weep, the former to laugh: the one thought all human doings to be follies, the other thought them to be miseries. We must take a higher view of all things, and bear with them more easily: it better becomes a man to scoff at life than to lament over it.