Plain
Seneca — The Senator

What have I accomplished except to make myself a target for my enemies? All I've done is show people who hate me exactly where to hurt me. Look at those who praise your speaking skills, who want your money, who try to win your favor, or who boast about your power. All of these people either are your enemies already, or they might as well be. The number of people who envy you equals the number who admire you. Why don't I look for something good that I can actually use and enjoy, instead of something I can just show off? These things that people stare at in amazement, that draw crowds, that leave people pointing and speechless with wonder — they look brilliant on the outside. But inside, they make their owners miserable.

On the Happy Life, Section 2 8 of 101
What Matters Most Human Nature
Seneca — The Senator Original

what have I effected save to make myself a mark for the arrows of my enemies, and show those who hate me where to wound me? Do you see those who praise your eloquence, who covet your wealth, who court your favour, or who vaunt your power? All these either are, or, which comes to the same thing, may be your enemies: the number of those who envy you is as great as that of those who admire you; why do I not rather seek for some good thing which I can use and feel, not one which I can show? these good things which men gaze at in wonder, which they crowd to see, which one points out to another with speechless admiration, are outwardly brilliant, but within are miseries to those who possess them."

On the Happy Life, Section 2 8 of 101
Seneca — The Senator

If someone ever gives their mind a moment to breathe and takes time to be alone with their thoughts, what painful truths they will admit to themselves! After being tortured by their own conscience, they will say: "I wish I could undo everything I've done. When I think about the things I've said, I envy people who can't speak. Everything I've wanted seems like something my enemies would wish on me. My God, the things I was afraid of seem so much more bearable than the things I craved. I've been enemies with many people and later became friends with them — if you can call it friendship when bad people get along. But I still haven't made peace with myself. I've fought with all my strength to rise above ordinary people and make myself stand out with some special talent."

On the Happy Life, Section 2 7 of 101
Knowing Yourself Calm Your Mind
Seneca — The Senator Original

If a man ever allows his mind some breathing space and has leisure for communing with himself, what truths he will confess to himself, after having been put to the torture by his own self! He will say, "Whatever I have hitherto done I wish were undone: when I think over what I have said, I envy dumb people: whatever I have longed for seems to have been what my enemies would pray might befall me: good heaven, how far more endurable what I have feared seems to be than what I have lusted after. I have been at enmity with many men, and have changed my dislike of them into friendship, if friendship can exist between bad men: yet I have not yet become reconciled to myself. I have striven with all my strength to raise myself above the common herd, and to make myself remarkable for some talent:

On the Happy Life, Section 2 7 of 101
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