Plain
Seneca — The Senator

Let a child hear the truth, and sometimes fear it. But let him always respect it. Let him stand up when adults enter the room. Let him get nothing by throwing tantrums. Give him things when he's calm that you refused when he was screaming. Let him see his father's wealth but not use it. Correct him when he does wrong. It helps to give boys teachers and tutors who stay calm. Whatever is soft and unformed sticks to what's nearby and takes its shape. Young men copy the habits of their nurses and tutors.

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Knowing Yourself Human Nature
Seneca — The Senator Original

Let a child hear the truth, and sometimes fear it: let him always reverence it. Let him rise in the presence of his elders. Let him obtain nothing by flying into a passion: let him be given when he is quiet what was refused him when he cried for it: let him behold, but not make use of his father's wealth: let him be reproved for what he does wrong. It will be advantageous to furnish boys with even-tempered teachers and _paedagogi_: what is soft and unformed clings to what is near, and takes its shape: the habits of young men reproduce those of their nurses and _paedagogi_.

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Seneca — The Senator

Have you noticed how people get angrier as they gain power and status? This is especially true for the rich, the noble, and those in high positions. Success feeds their anger. When they're surrounded by flatterers whispering in their ears — "How dare he talk to you like that! You're not acting with proper dignity! You're lowering yourself!" — it stokes the fire. Even people with good hearts and strong principles can barely resist this kind of talk. That's why we must keep flatterers away from children.

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Human Nature Facing Hardship
Seneca — The Senator Original

Do you not observe how a man's anger becomes more violent as he rises in station? This shows itself especially in those that are rich and noble, or in great place, when the favouring gale has roused all the most empty and trivial passions of their minds. Prosperity fosters anger, when a man's proud ears are surrounded by a mob of flatterers, saying, "That man answer you! you do not act according to your dignity, you lower yourself." And so forth, with all the language which can hardly be resisted even by healthy and originally well-principled minds. Flattery, then, must be kept well out of the way of children.

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