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Seneca — The Senator

Would anyone want to hit an enemy so hard that his hand gets stuck in the wound? Would you want to strike so wildly that you can't recover your balance? That's exactly what anger is like — a weapon you can barely pull back once you've swung it. We're careful to choose light, manageable swords for ourselves. So why don't we avoid these clumsy, uncontrollable impulses of the mind? The only kind of speed we admire is the kind that can stop when told to. Speed that can be guided and slowed from a run to a walk. We know our muscles are diseased when they move against our will. A man must be either old or sick if he runs when he means to walk. Let's remember that our strongest and healthiest mental actions are the ones we control — not the ones that control us.

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Calm Your Mind Freedom & Control
Seneca — The Senator Original

Does any one wish to strike his enemy so hard, as to leave his own hand in the wound, and not to be able to recover his balance after the blow? yet such a weapon is anger: it is scarcely possible to draw it back. We are careful to choose for ourselves light weapons, handy and manageable swords: shall we not avoid these clumsy, unwieldy, and never-to-be-recalled impulses of the mind? The only swiftness of which men approve is that which, when bidden, checks itself and proceeds no further, and which can be guided, and reduced from a run to a walk: we know that the sinews are diseased when they move against our will. A man must be either aged or weakly who runs when he wants to walk: let us think that those are the most powerful and the soundest operations of our minds, which act under our own control, not at their own caprice.

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Seneca — The Senator

If someone is angry with you, respond with kindness instead of anger. A fight that only one person is fighting will quickly end. It takes two people to keep a fight going. But suppose both of you are angry and struggling. Even then, the person who backs down first is the better person. The winner is actually the real loser. He hit you? Then step back. If you hit him back, you give him both a chance and a reason to hit you again. Once you're in that cycle, you won't be able to get out when you want to.

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Calm Your Mind Doing The Right Thing
Seneca — The Senator Original

If any one is angry with you, meet his anger by returning benefits for it: a quarrel which is only taken up on one side falls to the ground: it takes two men to fight. But[14] suppose that there is an angry struggle on both sides, even then, he is the better man who first gives way; the winner is the real loser. He struck you; well then, do you fall back: if you strike him in turn you will give him both an opportunity and an excuse for striking you again: you will not be able to withdraw yourself from the struggle when you please.

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