Plain
Seneca — The Senator

You get angry when your slave, freedman, wife, or client talks back to you. Then you complain that the state has lost its freedom — but you've destroyed freedom in your own house. Then if he stays quiet when you ask him something, you call it stubborn defiance. Let him speak and be silent and laugh too. "In front of his master?" you ask. No, say "in front of the head of the household." Why are you shouting? Why are you raging? Why do you call for a whip in the middle of dinner just because the slaves are talking? Why do you expect a crowd as big as a town meeting to be as quiet as the wilderness? You have ears for more than just listening to music — those soft, sweet, harmonious sounds. You should be able to hear laughter and crying, pleading and arguing, joy and sadness, human voices and the roars and barks of animals.

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Human Nature Facing Hardship
Seneca — The Senator Original

You are indignant at being answered back by your slave, your freedman, your wife, or your client: and then you complain of the state having lost the freedom which you have destroyed in your own house: then again if he is silent when you question him, you call it sullen obstinacy. Let him both speak and be silent, and laugh too. "In the presence of his master?" you ask. Nay, say rather "in the presence of the house-father." Why do you shout? why do you storm? why do you in the middle of dinner call for a whip, because the slaves are talking, because a crowd as large as a public meeting is not as silent as the wilderness? You have ears, not merely that you may listen to musical sounds, softly and sweetly drawn out and harmonized: you ought to hear laughter and weeping, coaxing and quarrelling, joy and sorrow, the human voice and the roaring and barking of animals.

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Seneca — The Senator

This man wanted to steal my inheritance. That one accused me in front of people I had been trying to impress for years. Another one wanted my lover. When we want the same things, it should bring us together as friends. Instead, it makes us enemies. A narrow path causes fights between people walking on it. But a wide road can handle whole tribes without anyone bumping into each other. The things you desire cause fights because they are small. You can't give them to one person without taking them away from someone else.

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Human Nature Facing Hardship
Seneca — The Senator Original

This man wanted to rob me of my inheritance, that one has brought a charge against me before persons[14] whom I had long courted with great expectations, that one has coveted my mistress. A wish for the same things, which ought to have been a bond of friendship, becomes a source of quarrels and hatred. A narrow path causes quarrels among those who pass up and down it; a wide and broadly spread road may be used by whole tribes without jostling. Those objects of desire of yours cause strife and disputes among those who covet the same things, because they are petty, and cannot be given to one man without being taken away from another.

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