Since we don't know how to handle being hurt, let's try not to get hurt in the first place. We should spend time with calm, easy-going people — not with anxious or moody ones. We copy the habits of the people around us. Just like some diseases spread through touch, the mind passes its flaws to neighbors. A drunk will make even his critics start to enjoy wine. Bad company can corrupt even strong-minded people if you let it. Greed infects the people closest to it with its poison.
Since we know not how to endure an injury, let us take care not to receive one: we should live with the quietest and easiest-tempered persons, not with anxious or with sullen ones: for our own habits are copied from those with whom we associate, and just as some bodily diseases are communicated by touch, so also the mind transfers its vices to its neighbours. A drunkard leads even those who reproach him to grow fond of wine: profligate society will, if permitted, impair the morals even of robust-minded men: avarice infects those nearest it with its poison.