Plain
Seneca — The Senator

Fight hard with yourself. If you can't conquer anger, don't let it conquer you. You've started to win if anger doesn't show itself, if you don't give it an outlet. Let's hide its symptoms. Keep it secret and hidden as much as possible. This will be hard work. Anger wants to burst out, light up our eyes, and change our face. But if we let it show in how we look, then it's our master. Instead, lock it away in the deepest part of your heart. You should carry it — don't let it carry you. Better yet, replace all its symptoms with their opposites. Make your face calmer than usual. Make your voice gentler. Walk slower.

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Calm Your Mind Facing Hardship
Seneca — The Senator Original

Fight hard with yourself and if you cannot conquer anger, do not let it conquer you: you have begun to get the better of it if it does not show itself, if it is not given vent. Let us conceal its symptoms, and as far as possible keep it secret and hidden. It will give us great trouble to do this, for it is eager to burst forth, to kindle our eyes and to transform our face; but if we allow it to show itself in our outward appearance, it is our master. Let it rather be locked in the innermost recesses of our breast, and be borne by us, not bear us: nay, let us replace all its symptoms by their opposites; let us make our countenance more composed than usual, our voice milder, our step slower.

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Seneca — The Senator

So Plato refused to use his authority over his own servants. Once, when he was angry about some mistake, he said, "Speusippus, please punish that slave for me. I'm too angry right now." He wouldn't strike the slave for the exact reason another person would have struck him. "I'm in a rage," he said. "I would beat him harder than I should. I would enjoy it more than I should. Don't let that slave suffer under someone who can't control himself." Do you really want to give an angry person the power of revenge, when even Plato gave up his own right to use it? When you're angry, you shouldn't be allowed to do anything. "Why?" you ask. Because when you're angry, there's nothing you don't want permission to do.

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Calm Your Mind Knowing Yourself
Seneca — The Senator Original

He therefore denied himself the exercise of authority over his own household, and once, being rather angry at some fault, said, "Speusippus, will you please to correct that slave with stripes; for I am in a rage." He would not strike him, for the very reason for which another man would have struck him. "I am in a rage," said he; "I should beat him more than I ought: I should take more pleasure than I ought in doing so: let not that slave fall into the power of one who is not in his own power." Can any one wish to grant the power of revenge to an angry man, when Plato himself gave up his own right to exercise it? While you are angry, you ought not to be allowed to do anything. "Why?" do you ask? Because when you are angry there is nothing that you do not wish to be allowed to do.

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