No one is happy with what they have if they keep looking at what others have. This makes us angry even at the gods when someone gets ahead of us. We forget how many people we're already ahead of. When someone envies just a few people, there's a huge crowd behind them who envies them. But human nature is so petty that no matter how much people receive, they feel cheated if they could have gotten more. "He gave me the praetorship. Yes, but I wanted the consulship. He gave me the twelve axes, but he didn't make me a regular consul. He let me give my name to the year, but he didn't help me get the priesthood. I was elected to the college, but why only one?"
No man is satisfied with his own lot if he fixes his attention on that of another: and this leads to our being angry even with the gods, because somebody precedes us, though we forget of how many we take precedence, and that when a man envies few people, he must be followed in the background by a huge crowd of people who envy him. Yet so churlish is human nature, that, however much men may have received, they think themselves wronged if they are able to receive still more. “He gave me the praetorship. Yes, but I had hoped for the consulship. He bestowed the twelve axes upon me: true, but he did not make me a regular[12] consul. He allowed me to give my name to the year, but he did not help me to the priesthood. I have been elected a member of the college: but why only of one?