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Seneca — The Senator

No one is happy with what they have if they keep looking at what others have. This makes us angry even at the gods when someone gets ahead of us. We forget how many people we're already ahead of. When someone envies just a few people, there's a huge crowd behind them who envies them. But human nature is so petty that no matter how much people receive, they feel cheated if they could have gotten more. "He gave me the praetorship. Yes, but I wanted the consulship. He gave me the twelve axes, but he didn't make me a regular consul. He let me give my name to the year, but he didn't help me get the priesthood. I was elected to the college, but why only one?"

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Human Nature What Matters Most
Seneca — The Senator Original

No man is satisfied with his own lot if he fixes his attention on that of another: and this leads to our being angry even with the gods, because somebody precedes us, though we forget of how many we take precedence, and that when a man envies few people, he must be followed in the background by a huge crowd of people who envy him. Yet so churlish is human nature, that, however much men may have received, they think themselves wronged if they are able to receive still more. “He gave me the praetorship. Yes, but I had hoped for the consulship. He bestowed the twelve axes upon me: true, but he did not make me a regular[12] consul. He allowed me to give my name to the year, but he did not help me to the priesthood. I have been elected a member of the college: but why only of one?

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Seneca — The Senator

Do I have less than I hoped for? Well, maybe I hoped for more than I should have. This is what we need to watch out for most carefully. This kind of thinking creates the most dangerous anger — the kind that destroys everything, even what should be sacred. Emperor Julius Caesar wasn't killed by his enemies so much as by friends whose endless greed he couldn't satisfy. He wanted to satisfy them. No one ever shared the rewards of victory more generously. He kept nothing for himself except the right to give things away. But how could he feed such greedy appetites when each person wanted as much as any one person could possibly have? That's why he found his fellow soldiers standing around his chair with swords drawn. Tillius Cimber was there — the same man who had recently been his strongest supporter. Others were there too, people who only joined Pompey's side after Pompey was already dead. This is what turns soldiers against their kings. It makes the most loyal followers plot to kill the very person they once would have gladly died for.

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Human Nature Facing Hardship
Seneca — The Senator Original

Have I less than I hoped for? well, perhaps I hoped for more than I ought. This it is against which we ought to be especially on our guard: from hence arises the most destructive anger, sparing nothing, not even the holiest. The Emperor Julius was not stabbed by so many enemies as by friends whose insatiable hopes he had not satisfied. He was willing enough to do so, for no one ever made a more generous use of victory, of whose fruits he kept nothing for himself save the power of distributing them; but how could he glut such unconscionable appetites, when each man coveted as much as any one man could possess? This was why he saw his fellow-soldiers standing round his chair with drawn swords, Tillius Cimber, though he had a short time before been the keenest defender of his party, and others who only became Pompeians after Pompeius was dead. This it is which has turned the arms of kings against them, and made their trustiest followers meditate the death of him for whom and before whom[11] they once would have been glad to die.

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