Now let's list the other things that make us angry: food, drink, and all the fancy stuff that goes with them. Words, insults, rude gestures. Suspicions. Stubborn animals and lazy servants. The nasty way we twist other people's words — so that even our ability to speak becomes something we curse nature for giving us. Trust me, the things that make us so furious are petty. They're the kind of things children fight about. Nothing we do with such serious faces is actually serious or important. I'll say it again: anger and madness come from caring too much about trivial things.
Come now, let us enumerate the other causes of anger: they are food, drink, and the showy apparatus connected with them, words, insults, disrespectful movements of the body, suspicions, obstinate cattle, lazy slaves, and spiteful construction put upon other men’s words, so that even the gift of language to mankind becomes reckoned among the wrongs of nature. Believe me, the things which cause us such great heat are trifles, the sort of things that children fight and squabble over: there is nothing serious, nothing important in all that we do with such gloomy faces. It is, I repeat, the setting a great value on trifles that is the cause of your anger and madness.