Plain
Seneca — The Senator

This problem comes from an unbalanced mind and desires that people are either afraid to admit or can't achieve. They don't dare attempt what they really want, or they try and fail, then live entirely on hope. These people are always restless and changing direction — which is what happens when you live in constant uncertainty. They will use any path to reach their goals. They push themselves to use methods that are both shameful and difficult. When all their hard work leads nowhere, they suffer twice: from the disgrace of failing and from the misery of wasted effort. They don't regret wanting the wrong things — they regret wanting them for nothing.

On Peace of Mind, Section 2 16 of 100
Knowing Yourself What Matters Most
Seneca — The Senator Original

This arises from a distemperature of mind and from desires which one is afraid to express or unable to fulfil, when men either dare not attempt as much as they wish to do, or fail in their efforts and depend entirely upon hope: such people are always fickle and changeable, which is a necessary consequence of living in a state of suspense: they take any way to arrive at their ends, and teach and force themselves to use both dishonourable and difficult means to do so, so that when their toil has been in vain they are made wretched by the disgrace of failure, and do not regret having longed for what was wrong, but having longed for it in vain.

On Peace of Mind, Section 2 16 of 100
Seneca — The Senator

This same problem affects many different types of people. Some are fickle and constantly change their minds. They always love what they just gave up. Others just yawn and waste time. Then there are people like bad sleepers who toss and turn, trying one position after another until exhaustion finally lets them rest. When forming their life habits, they often end up settling on something not because they chose it, but because old age caught them there and made them too slow to change. There are also people who aren't fickle at all — but only because they're too dull to change, not because they're truly consistent. They don't live the way they want to live. They just live the way they started living. There are countless other forms of this disease, but they all have the same result: people become dissatisfied with themselves.

On Peace of Mind, Section 2 15 of 100
Knowing Yourself Human Nature
Seneca — The Senator Original

The same thing applies both to those who suffer from fickleness and continual changes of purpose, who always are fondest of what they have given up, and those who merely yawn and dawdle: add to these those who, like bad sleepers, turn from side to side, and settle themselves first in one manner and then in another, until at last they find rest through sheer weariness: in forming the habits of their lives they often end by adopting some to which they are not kept by any dislike of change, but in the practice of which old age, which is slow to alter, has caught them living: add also those who are by no means fickle, yet who must thank their dulness, not their consistency for being so, and who go on living not in the way they wish, but in the way they have begun to live. There are other special forms of this disease without number, but it has but one effect, that of making people dissatisfied with themselves.

On Peace of Mind, Section 2 15 of 100
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