Plain
Seneca — The Senator

We shouldn't keep our minds under constant pressure. Sometimes we need to relax and have fun. Socrates wasn't embarrassed to play with children. Cato would unwind with wine after exhausting himself with government business. Scipio would dance to music with bold, athletic movements — not the weak, effeminate swaying that's fashionable today, where even our walking has become delicate and womanly. He danced the way men used to dance at celebrations in the old days, with strong, energetic steps. He didn't care if even his enemies saw him doing it. Our minds need to rest and play. They come back stronger and sharper after a break.

On Peace of Mind, Section 17 94 of 100
Calm Your Mind What Matters Most
Seneca — The Senator Original

Neither ought we always to keep the mind strained to the same pitch, but it ought sometimes to be relaxed by amusement. Socrates did not blush to play with little boys, Cato used to refresh his mind with wine after he had wearied it with application to affairs of state, and Scipio would move his triumphal and soldierly limbs to the sound of music, not with a feeble and halting gait, as is the fashion now-a-days, when we sway in our very walk with more than womanly weakness, but dancing as men were wont in the days of old on sportive and festal occasions, with manly bounds, thinking it no harm to be seen so doing even by their enemies. Men's minds ought to have relaxation: they rise up better and more vigorous after rest.

On Peace of Mind, Section 17 94 of 100
Seneca — The Senator

Still, we need to be moderate about this. There's a big difference between living simply and living like a slob. We should also spend plenty of time alone with ourselves. Hanging around people who are very different from us disrupts our peace of mind. It stirs up emotions we had calmed down and reopens any mental wounds that haven't fully healed yet. But we should mix these two things together — sometimes alone, sometimes with crowds. Solitude will make us miss other people. Being with others will make us miss being alone. Each one balances out the other. When we're sick of crowds, solitude will heal us. When we're sick of being alone, crowds will heal us.

On Peace of Mind, Section 17 93 of 100
Calm Your Mind Freedom & Control
Seneca — The Senator Original

Still, we must observe moderation in this matter, for there is a great difference between living simply and living slovenly. Moreover, we ought to retire a great deal into ourselves: for association with persons unlike ourselves upsets all that we had arranged, rouses the passions which were at rest, and rubs into a sore any weak or imperfectly healed place in our minds. Nevertheless we ought to mix up these two things, and to pass our lives alternately in solitude and among throngs of people; for the former will make us long for the society of mankind, the latter for that of ourselves, and the one will counteract the other: solitude will cure us when we are sick of crowds, and crowds will cure us when we are sick of solitude.

On Peace of Mind, Section 17 93 of 100
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