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Epictetus — The Slave

When someone hurts your body or steals your stuff, you call that real harm. But when someone corrupts their own character — when they become dishonest or shameless — you think that's no big deal. The person who lies or cheats doesn't get a headache. They don't lose an eye or break a hip. They don't lose their house. And we only care about protecting those physical things. We don't care whether our character becomes decent and trustworthy, or rotten and unreliable. We only talk about character in school, just empty words. That's why our real progress stops at those few words. Beyond that, we don't improve at all.

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Knowing Yourself What Matters Most
Epictetus — The Slave Original

and where the same thing happens to the faculty of the will, there is (you suppose) no harm; for he who has been deceived or he who has done an unjust act neither suffers in the head nor in the eye nor in the hip, nor does he lose his estate; and we wish for nothing else than (security to) these things. But whether we shall have the will modest and faithful or shameless and faithless, we care not the least, except only in the school so far as a few words are concerned. Therefore our proficiency is limited to these few words; but beyond them it does not exist even in the slightest degree.

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Epictetus — The Slave

So what then? Should I hurt someone who hurt me? First, think about what 'hurt' really means. Remember what the philosophers taught you. If good comes from your choices and evil comes from your choices, then listen to what you're actually saying: 'Since that person hurt himself by treating me unfairly, should I hurt myself by treating him unfairly?' Why don't we think about it this way? But when our body gets damaged or we lose our stuff, we call that harm.

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Doing The Right Thing Freedom & Control
Epictetus — The Slave Original

What then? shall I not hurt him who has hurt me? In the first place consider what hurt ([Greek: blabae]) is, and remember what you have heard from the philosophers. For if the good consists in the will (purpose, intention, [Greek: proaireeis]), and the evil also in the will, see if what you say is not this: What then, since that man has hurt himself by doing an unjust act to me, shall I not hurt myself by doing some unjust act to him? Why do we not imagine to ourselves (mentally think of) something of this kind? But where there is any detriment to the body or to our possession, there is harm there;

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