Plain
Seneca — The Senator

People who get angry easily shouldn't take on serious, demanding work. Or at least they should quit before they get exhausted. Their minds shouldn't wrestle with hard problems. Instead, give them pleasant activities. Let them read poetry and interesting stories. Treat them with luxury and refinement. Pythagoras used to calm his troubled spirit by playing the lyre. Everyone knows that trumpets and horns irritate us, while certain melodies put us to sleep and soothe the mind. Green is good for tired eyes. Some colors are gentle on weak vision, while bright ones hurt. In the same way, cheerful activities soothe unhealthy minds. We must avoid courtrooms, legal arguments, trials, and anything else that makes our anger worse. We should also avoid physical exhaustion. It drains away everything that is calm and gentle in us, and stirs up bitterness.

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Calm Your Mind Knowing Yourself
Seneca — The Senator Original

Irascible men ought not to meddle with the more serious class of occupations, or, at any rate, ought to stop short of weariness in the pursuit of them; their mind ought not to be engaged upon hard subjects, but handed over to pleasing arts: let it be softened by reading poetry, and interested by legendary history: let it be treated with luxury and refinement. Pythagoras used to calm his troubled spirit by playing upon the lyre: and who does not know that trumpets and clarions are irritants, just as some airs are lullabies and soothe the mind? Green is good for wearied eyes, and some colours are grateful to weak sight, while the brightness of others is painful to it. In the same way cheerful pursuits soothe unhealthy minds. We must avoid law courts, pleadings, verdicts, and everything else that aggravates our fault, and we ought no less to avoid bodily weariness; for it exhausts all that is quiet and gentle in us, and rouses bitterness.

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Seneca — The Senator

If we know we have a quick temper, we might want to surround ourselves with friends who agree with everything we say. They will spoil us and train us to hear only what we want to hear. But it's actually better to give our anger a break and some peace. Even animals that are naturally mean and aggressive will respond to gentle treatment. No creature stays angry or scared if you pet it kindly. When an argument looks like it might drag on longer or get nastier than usual, we should stop it at the very beginning, before it gains momentum. Arguments feed on themselves as they continue. They grab hold of anyone who gets too deep into them. It's much easier to stay out of a fight than to escape once you're already in it.

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Facing Hardship Calm Your Mind
Seneca — The Senator Original

If, then, we are conscious of an irascible disposition, let us especially choose for our friends those who will look and speak as we do: they will pamper us and lead us into a bad habit of listening to nothing that does not please us, but it will be good to give our anger respite and repose. Even those who are naturally crabbed and wild will yield to caresses: no creature continues either angry or frightened if you pat him. Whenever a controversy seems likely to be longer or more keenly disputed than usual, let us check its first beginnings, before it gathers strength. A dispute nourishes itself as it proceeds, and takes hold of those who plunge too deeply into it: it is easier to stand aloof than to extricate oneself from a struggle.

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