Why do you point out how pale this person looks, or how thin that one is? There's a plague affecting everyone. So let's be kinder to each other. We're all flawed people living among other flawed people. There's only one thing that can give us peace: agreeing to forgive one another. "But this person has already hurt me," you say, "and I haven't hurt him yet." Maybe not, but you've probably hurt someone else, and you'll hurt him someday too. Don't judge yourself by just one hour or one day. Look at your whole character. Even if you haven't done anything evil yet, you're still capable of it.
Why do you remark how pale this man, or how lean that man is? there is a general pestilence. Let us therefore be more gentle one to another: we are bad men, living among bad men: there is only one thing which can afford us peace, and that is to agree to forgive one another. “This man has already injured me,” say you, “and I have not yet injured him.” No, but you have probably injured some one else, and you will injure him some day. Do not form your judgment by one hour, or one day: consider the whole tendency of your mind: even though you have done no evil, yet you are capable of doing it.