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Seneca — The Senator

How much better is it to heal a wound than to get revenge? Revenge eats up time and exposes you to many more injuries while you're still hurting from the first one. We all stay angry longer than we actually feel the pain. How much better to do the opposite — don't answer one wrong with another wrong. Would anyone think he was sane if he kicked back at a mule or bit back at a dog? "Those animals," you say, "don't know they're doing wrong." Well, first of all, what kind of unfair judge are you if a person has less chance of your forgiveness than an animal? Second, if animals escape your anger because they lack reason, you should treat all foolish people the same way. If someone has the same mental darkness that excuses all the wrongdoing of dumb animals, what difference does it make if he's otherwise unlike an animal? He has sinned. Well, is this his first time, or will this be his last?

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Seneca — The Senator Original

How far better is it to heal an injury than to avenge it? Revenge takes up much time, and throws itself in the way of many injuries while it is smarting under one. We all retain our anger longer than we feel our hurt: how far better it were to take the opposite course and not meet one mischief by another. Would any one think himself to be in his perfect mind if he were to return kicks to a mule or bites to a dog?” These creatures,” you say, “know not that they are doing wrong.” Then, in the first place, what an unjust judge you must be if a man has less chance of gaining your forgiveness than a beast! Secondly, if animals are protected from your anger by their want of reason, you ought to treat all foolish men in the like manner: for if a man has that mental darkness which excuses all the wrong-doings of dumb animals, what difference does it make if in other respects he be unlike a dumb animal? He has sinned. Well, is this the first time, or will this be the last time?

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Seneca — The Senator

Why do you point out how pale this person looks, or how thin that one is? There's a plague affecting everyone. So let's be kinder to each other. We're all flawed people living among other flawed people. There's only one thing that can give us peace: agreeing to forgive one another. "But this person has already hurt me," you say, "and I haven't hurt him yet." Maybe not, but you've probably hurt someone else, and you'll hurt him someday too. Don't judge yourself by just one hour or one day. Look at your whole character. Even if you haven't done anything evil yet, you're still capable of it.

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Human Nature Doing The Right Thing
Seneca — The Senator Original

Why do you remark how pale this man, or how lean that man is? there is a general pestilence. Let us therefore be more gentle one to another: we are bad men, living among bad men: there is only one thing which can afford us peace, and that is to agree to forgive one another. “This man has already injured me,” say you, “and I have not yet injured him.” No, but you have probably injured some one else, and you will injure him some day. Do not form your judgment by one hour, or one day: consider the whole tendency of your mind: even though you have done no evil, yet you are capable of doing it.

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