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Seneca — The Senator

Different people should make us pause before getting angry with them. Some we should fear to anger. Others should make us feel ashamed of our anger. Still others aren't worth our anger at all. What a great accomplishment — sending some poor slave to prison! Why rush to beat him right now? Why break his legs immediately? Our power won't disappear if we wait to use it. Let's wait until we can think clearly and give real orders. Right now, anger is doing the talking for us.

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Calm Your Mind Human Nature
Seneca — The Senator Original

Let different qualities in different people keep us from quarrelling with them: let us fear to be angry with some, feel ashamed of being angry with others, and disdain to be angry with others. We do a fine thing, indeed, when we send a wretched slave to the workhouse! Why are we in such a hurry to flog him at once, to break his legs straightway? we shall not lose our boasted power if we defer its exercise. Let us wait for the time when we ourselves can give orders: at present we speak under constraint from anger.

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Seneca — The Senator

"He has given me every honor the state offers, but he hasn't added anything to my personal wealth. What he gave me, he had to give to someone. He didn't reach into his own pocket for it." Stop talking like this. Thank him for what you received. Wait for more, and be grateful you still have room for more good things. There's real pleasure in having something left to hope for. Are you his top choice? Then celebrate holding first place in your friend's heart. Are many others chosen before you? Then remember how many more people rank below you than above you. Want to know your biggest problem? You keep terrible accounts. You put a high price on what you give and a low price on what you get.

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Human Nature Knowing Yourself
Seneca — The Senator Original

He has bestowed upon me every honour that the state affords: yes, but he has added nothing to my private fortune. What he gave me he was obliged to give to somebody: he brought out nothing from his own pocket.” Rather than speak thus, thank him for what you have received: wait for the rest, and be thankful that you are not yet too full to contain more: there is a pleasure in having something left to hope for. Are you preferred to every one? then rejoice at holding the first place in the thoughts of your friend. Or are many others preferred before you? then think how many more are below you than there are above you. Do you ask, what is your greatest fault? It is, that you keep your accounts wrongly: you set a high value upon what you give, and a low one upon what you receive.

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